The way you write it, it sounds like he was playing a game with you from the beginning - the red flags sounds like either a gruesome dating experiment or a just plain selfish asshole way of dealing with the world. » 9/02/14 1:17pm Today 1:17pm

I think it's normal to want to feel desired no matter where you're coming from. I'm the opposite of you- have always been single as an adult, and I know perfectly well that OkCupid isn't ever going to work for me, BUT I like the desirability and attention stuff without having to care. I enjoy it enough that I go back… » 9/02/14 1:09pm Today 1:09pm