I've also noticed myself looking a little more like my mom these days, especially around the middle, which never used to happen. We both put on weight in the belly and hips, and we are now within about 10 pounds of each other - we just wear it differently because of our slightly different figures. I was this heavy… » 9/25/14 5:31pm Thursday 5:31pm

I've had some really fun, friendly meetings with a couple OkC guys that gave me real connection/friendship vibes at the end, which was good enough for me. Like, we spent a good hour and some talking about coffee, art, and in one case, the movie Double Jeopardy, with no awkwardness. I do think it helps if you maybe… » 9/23/14 8:53pm 9/23/14 8:53pm

I've always thought of the first meeting as nonsexual anyway. You're just confirming the other person is who he says he is, and expanding on conversations you've had on OkCupid. I have had a few great first meetings with good guys that gave me a great friendship vibe. » 9/21/14 10:53pm 9/21/14 10:53pm

Sadly, my mother is mean like this to single moms. The kicker is, she was a single mother, something that I believe she tries to forget with her nasty behavior, thinking she's somehow "different." I have a feeling she's trying to do her damndest to forget she was once in this position. Some people don't have room for… » 9/19/14 8:17pm 9/19/14 8:17pm