I can sort of relate. I've always been on the fence about kids, but for me they are a shorthand for success and having love. The irony is I DON'T always associate children with love, and sometimes I think if I were a mom right now, I would be living a life as "lonely" as any single person. » 7/30/14 10:24pm Wednesday 10:24pm

I see you on the hating people thing, but also 1. that comment made me laugh in disbelief at how stupid and unrelated to anything it was; and 2. a lot of actual sexual behavior hasn't changed greatly between 1945 and now (lots of variation, obviously). Way to show off your ignorance, random commenter! » 7/30/14 1:52pm Wednesday 1:52pm

As another person unsuited to most people's idea of sexuality and dating, I have to wonder if we're still in the "four humors and leeching" stage of human sexuality studies. Medicine's come a long way, but I'm not sure the sexual/asexual spectrum covers everything, thought it's useful. » 7/30/14 12:38pm Wednesday 12:38pm

I'm a very average bra size - 36C (in most bras; can you manage standard sizing, bra industry? oh, who am I kidding?). I wash my cheapo Target bras in the machine in a lingerie bag and just hang them on my drying rack. The pricier ones I handwash in my sink, and they do last me a good long while - I had one that only… » 7/29/14 9:43am Tuesday 9:43am