Completely Inane Subjects: Putting on a Bra Correctly

My sister told me recently that I've always put on a bra the "wrong" way; that is, I hook the band in front while the bra is upside down, flip the bra around, and then put my boobs in the cups. This is, apparently, the way preteen and teenage girls put on bras (entry-level bra wearing!). I am supposed to put the bra… » 10/21/14 2:16pm Tuesday 2:16pm

A weird inverse of this: when a marriage fails, it's more the wife's fault than the husband's, because she's not mature enough to suck it up. I heard this one a lot through my cousin's separation and divorce. The fact that my cousin had substance abuse problems couldn't possibly have been a factor. » 10/20/14 2:42pm Monday 2:42pm

I'm mooncaf. My dating life has been sadder, more sexless and lonelier than my single life, so I'm still single. I was going to do a post on how used to it I am, and how I flinch when anyone touches because of how weird it is, but this past weekend it made me feel diseased, so not right now. » 10/20/14 9:02am Monday 9:02am

Similar things happened to me at the end of college with friends moving away and life changes; it took me a good long while to make new friends and start to feel good about where I was in life. I just had to be unhappy for a bit until I realized I wasn't anymore. The difference with you is, you're so far ahead of… » 10/19/14 10:26pm 10/19/14 10:26pm

I had electrolysis done for a couple of years in my 20s.... it made my chin and lip hair thinner, but it sure didn't make it vanish. And yes, it hurts, but less so on the chin and neck (again, my experience). The problem with it is that you have to have it done very frequently to destroy the follicle - in my case,… » 10/18/14 9:38pm 10/18/14 9:38pm

I'm sorta, kinda ok with it from the other side: it takes so much to sexually attract me that I accept that OkC isn't the way to go, and I may just never find anyone to live with, or exciting, pleasurable sex. It sucks, but it's a hell of a lot better than the loneliness I put up with while I WAS dating. » 10/17/14 9:18pm 10/17/14 9:18pm